i have challenged about 5 different people and 4 of them instantly declined and the other accepted but we are yet to drift. I have no points or no win/losses so what does that mean,>?

People are obliged to decline challenges its a bit of bad luck.

The reason i declined is because Im going out on almost every one of those nights/times.

Keep challenging or PM the player before you challenge them

If people are unable to make your set times then they may decline without consequence. The best way to get a match on the day that you want is to make a thread asking for a challenge or PM around and ask.